Comments on: Is fear causing you to procrastinate? http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/procrastination/is-fear-causing-you-to-procrastinate/ Sat, 19 May 2012 17:19:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Anth Quinn http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/procrastination/is-fear-causing-you-to-procrastinate/#comment-1017 Anth Quinn Mon, 11 Aug 2008 14:37:59 +0000 http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/?p=58#comment-1017 Hi Jerry, Here is a direct link to the PDF http://www.empiricalcoaching.com/pdf/takecontrol.pdf Hope this helps, Anth. Anth. Hi Jerry,

Here is a direct link to the PDF

http://www.empiricalcoaching.com/pdf/takecontrol.pdf

Hope this helps,

Anth.

Anth.

]]> By: Jerry Faucher http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/procrastination/is-fear-causing-you-to-procrastinate/#comment-1016 Jerry Faucher Mon, 11 Aug 2008 12:24:47 +0000 http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/?p=58#comment-1016 Anth, you mentioned an e-book. Is that coming? I saw no mention of it since I sent in the request. Great job on motivation. Lots of information to think over. Jerry Faucher Anth, you mentioned an e-book. Is that coming? I saw no mention of it since I sent in the request.
Great job on motivation. Lots of information to think over.

Jerry Faucher

]]> By: olivia http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/procrastination/is-fear-causing-you-to-procrastinate/#comment-853 olivia Fri, 18 Jul 2008 03:19:30 +0000 http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/?p=58#comment-853 Nancy Please find a safe place where 'The Evil Man' would not think to look and then take your cats and go there, batten down the hatches, and rest, meditate, and restore your inner being until you feel safe. OR Please don't compromise your life, happiness, and well being for the sake of your cats. Bless them and go yourself. If he thinks you won't know what happens to them he will do nothing as it's your reaction and pain that is his addiction and motivation to harm them. It seems unfair that he should have that power... but he only has it because you give it to him. I have been in that position but rather than cats it was my baby daughter. We now live safely on the other side of the world and she is a blossoming young woman of 23 years. Do not submit to his hold. You are a free being of value. Kindest wishes, Olivia Nancy

Please find a safe place where ‘The Evil Man’ would not think to look and then take your cats and go there, batten down the hatches, and rest, meditate, and restore your inner being until you feel safe.
OR
Please don’t compromise your life, happiness, and well being for the sake of your cats. Bless them and go yourself. If he thinks you won’t know what happens to them he will do nothing as it’s your reaction and pain that is his addiction and motivation to harm them.

It seems unfair that he should have that power… but he only has it because you give it to him. I have been in that position but rather than cats it was my baby daughter. We now live safely on the other side of the world and she is a blossoming young woman of 23 years.

Do not submit to his hold. You are a free being of value.

Kindest wishes,

Olivia

]]> By: Anth Quinn » Blog Archive » Are you too good to risk taking action on this? http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/procrastination/is-fear-causing-you-to-procrastinate/#comment-844 Anth Quinn » Blog Archive » Are you too good to risk taking action on this? Thu, 17 Jul 2008 09:50:45 +0000 http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/?p=58#comment-844 [...] entry http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/?p=58 provides a great example, if you read the comments you’ll see b and dw are both aspiring authors [...] [...] entry http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/?p=58 provides a great example, if you read the comments you’ll see b and dw are both aspiring authors [...]

]]> By: b http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/procrastination/is-fear-causing-you-to-procrastinate/#comment-821 b Wed, 09 Jul 2008 15:14:31 +0000 http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/?p=58#comment-821 well dw, it seems you're as nervous as me (and have the same comments from the missus!). Should we try to help each other out? b well dw, it seems you’re as nervous as me (and have the same comments from the missus!). Should we try to help each other out?
b

]]> By: The Wow Factor http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/procrastination/is-fear-causing-you-to-procrastinate/#comment-819 The Wow Factor Tue, 08 Jul 2008 17:50:30 +0000 http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/?p=58#comment-819 This is for Nancy. Yes, compared to what you are going through our fears seem somewhat minor. I too have two special cats and one dog in my life whom I love very much and it breaks my heart to think of any type of harm happening to them. BUT, you must save you and if while doing that you can also save them, wonderful. If not, time will have to heal your heart. Just realize that everyday that you stay, a little part of you dies. Please find some sort of organization that can help give you the courage to leave and provide a safe place for you to go and Nancy, if all else fails, please, please call 911. Let us know how things are going. This is for Nancy. Yes, compared to what you are going through our fears seem somewhat minor. I too have two special cats and one dog in my life whom I love very much and it breaks my heart to think of any type of harm happening to them. BUT, you must save you and if while doing that you can also save them, wonderful. If not, time will have to heal your heart. Just realize that everyday that you stay, a little part of you dies. Please find some sort of organization that can help give you the courage to leave and provide a safe place for you to go and Nancy, if all else fails, please, please call 911. Let us know how things are going.

]]> By: The Wow Factor http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/procrastination/is-fear-causing-you-to-procrastinate/#comment-818 The Wow Factor Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:49:36 +0000 http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/?p=58#comment-818 Mr. Quinn, Thank you for your time. I'm in the process of starting an image consulting (home based) company. I have everything I need to get started, I am very knowledgable in that area, I'm very good at what I do, but FEAR stops me dead in my tracks. I am not a shy person by any means, I connect well with people, I have an outgoing personality, yet FEAR still stops me from going out and promoting my business. I have a strong fear of rejection and maybe a fear of failure. I love my business and my passion is there, but fear is overshadowing everything. Help! Mr. Quinn,

Thank you for your time. I’m in the process of starting an image consulting (home based) company. I have everything I need to get started, I am very knowledgable in that area, I’m very good at what I do, but FEAR stops me dead in my tracks. I am not a shy person by any means, I connect well with people, I have an outgoing personality, yet FEAR still stops me from going out and promoting my business. I have a strong fear of rejection and maybe a fear of failure. I love my business and my passion is there, but fear is overshadowing everything. Help!

]]> By: sujal http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/procrastination/is-fear-causing-you-to-procrastinate/#comment-815 sujal Mon, 07 Jul 2008 01:33:43 +0000 http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/?p=58#comment-815 hi Anth, how are you? i wanna ask one question to you?? can you pls give me the answer of it . i fear many time in the crowd or in big function ??? i feel like a i m in a heaven , hi Anth,

how are you? i wanna ask one question to you?? can you pls give me the answer of it .

i fear many time in the crowd or in big function ??? i feel like a i m in a heaven ,

]]> By: Swinger http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/procrastination/is-fear-causing-you-to-procrastinate/#comment-813 Swinger Sun, 06 Jul 2008 23:17:19 +0000 http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/?p=58#comment-813 Thank you for taking your time to send me this great information to help me understand "fear." I am a full time student at university, I attend most classes and I have a fair idea of the topic, but I don't seem able to write my assignment. I DO WRITE MY assignment because I do not think it is good enough, so I hold back on it instead of handing it in. This has become a very stressful situation as I am heading towards failing my papers. SWINGER. Thank you for taking your time to send me this great information to help me understand “fear.”

I am a full time student at university, I attend most classes and I have a fair idea of the topic, but I don’t seem able to write my assignment. I DO WRITE MY assignment because I do not think it is good enough, so I hold back on it instead of handing it in. This has become a very stressful situation as I am heading towards failing my papers.

SWINGER.

]]> By: Em http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/procrastination/is-fear-causing-you-to-procrastinate/#comment-811 Em Sun, 06 Jul 2008 14:24:18 +0000 http://empiricalcoaching.com/blog/?p=58#comment-811 Sometimes if you're in an abusive relationship, in order to get out you need to build up your self-esteem and realize that none of us deserve abuse. Of course, the longer you wait, the more difficult it becomes to get out because your partner's chipping away at whatever self-esteem you have left. If this is the case, it's either time to get professional help or to trust the advice of people who've successfully overcome situations like this. Then you have to work at re-building a life that's in balance. Eventually, in retrospect you'll find it hard to believe that you tolerated such insanity. Sometimes if you’re in an abusive relationship, in order to get out you need to build up your self-esteem and realize that none of us deserve abuse. Of course, the longer you wait, the more difficult it becomes to get out because your partner’s chipping away at whatever self-esteem you have left. If this is the case, it’s either time to get professional help or to trust the advice of people who’ve successfully overcome situations like this. Then you have to work at re-building a life that’s in balance. Eventually, in retrospect you’ll find it hard to believe that you tolerated such insanity.

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