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    Return of the Job Queue!

    The fallout from the recent credit crunch seems to be at the root of the increase in people losing their jobs over the last few weeks and this is really got me thinking about the effect on your life of losing your job or even simply living under the threat of losing it.

    There is no doubt that this is a really scary prospect for many people, the thought of unemployment and any resulting financial or social hardship is keeping many people awake at night worrying about what they will have to do.

    Are you worrying about your job?

    If you are one thing is certain, sticking your head in the sand and pretending it’s not happening is the worst possible form of action.

    I’m not an expert career adviser but I do have helped quite a few people to change career. I also have personal experience of the effect of unemployment and its associated challenges as well as some experience of turning it into a positive experience.

    In my early 20s I spent 18 months on the employment register after being made redundant at the end of my welding apprenticeship and finding it impossible to find any welding work.

    If I’m being totally honest, I was in a bit of a whole mentally; feeling lost and couldn’t see any way out.

    Luckily for me my brother had been working as a forklift driver and hating it. The good news is that he used his desperation for change as the fuel to kick himself into action and sign up for night school. He worked like a dog, studying before work, on coffee breaks (ignoring the cat calls from his work ‘friends’) and after work too. 10 months later he ended up passing with flying colours!

    His example of academic success helped change my beliefs about what “people like us” could achieve and I too began to study in order to escape the dole queue.

    I can still remember the feeling of exhilaration as I said to myself:

    “You can turn your life around too!”

    …and I began to see beyond my old limited thinking and consider new possibilities. I can also still remember the laments of my ex-welder colleagues bemoaning their situation and inability to find work as welders.

    “But, Anth man welding is all I know!”

    This coming from a 19-year-old boy who was totally locked into the identity of “welder” to such an extent that he couldn’t see beyond it.

    [It doesn't matter if you're 19 or 69, if you are someone who only identifies themselves and the possibilities for your life by your existing or old job role, please read the above paragraph again!]

    I’m not setting myself up as special, as I mentioned earlier I was lucky because someone helped me to raise my aspirations, believe in myself and begin to take action to take control of my situation.

    …and that made all the difference!

    This simple change in thinking transformed the next 20 years of my life as I graduated from University and built a successful career way beyond my expectations when I was serving my welding apprenticeship. It’s funny I bet you’d never guess that redundancy could be one of the best opportunities life ever gives you!

    I’m no special case either; thousands of people all over the world make simple decisions in the face of tough life situations and take proactive action to turn their lives around.

    I’m not saying it’s easy but it’s a lot easier than sitting back; worrying and hoping you’re not going to be affected.

    When faced with enforced changes in life it’s very very common to resist the change and to look for someone to blame – but none of this is going to help you find a new job!

    Everyone’s situation is different, but if you:

    Lost your Job?

    Finding a job is more than just reading the newspapers and visiting the Jobcentre – Job-hunting is a skill in itself:

    If you’re consistently not getting past the application/interview could you be doing something wrong?

    Get some advice/feedback on your applications keep taking action and seeking feedback, keep tweaking your approach! Ring everyone who you apply to, explain your situation and ask for specific feedback about what you could do to increase your chances of success next time? Every now and then someone will give you a little piece of gold! You might not like it, but remember they’re the one’s hiring - so it’s worth listening to their opinion!


    Trying to Keep Your Job?

    If you’re looking to keep your job, some ideas might be:

    · Work on adding value and subtlety being seen to do it.
    · Increase your skills
    · Work on doing the best job you can
    · Develop your rapport, communication, influence and persuasion skills
    · Work on developing good relationships with your boss

    Doing all of the above won’t help you keep your job, if the company closes but even then your proactive attitude and new skills will make it easier to find another.


    Are you in financial trouble because you’ve lost your job?

    This is a tough place to be, but take some action to manage this now!

    Do you know where your current spending what you’ve got? No! Take action to find out and begin to manage your money new while you’ve still got some. This will be a very useful skill to hang onto as you begin to get back into the black and build your savings in the months and years ahead.

    If you’re in debt ignoring it only makes things worse!

    Get some free expert advice and act on it!

    In the UK you could ask the Citizen’s Advice Bureau?

    If you’re somewhere else in the world find out who can help and ask for it!

    The thing is that the economy is cyclical and tough times don’t last for ever but knowing this isn’t always a comfort when you’re in a tough spot. Just remember that you can take action!

    The economic climate is truly not your worst enemy; hiding your head in the sand, worrying without taking positive action, apathy and resignation will put your life on hold and making yourself a victim will not help.

    Even if you’re in a tough spot and are scared to take action and first, recognise that being willing to face up to the reality of the challenges you face and being willing to take action will not only help you in the short term – developing these habits will put you in a much better place when the good times come around again too.

    The bottom line is that you can take action…

    My question to you is:

    “What action could you take today?”

    I realise that this post is a little different to many of the others and may seem a little “off topic” but to be honest if it encourages you to take action then that is enough for me.

    I’d love to hear what actions you take,

    So take action and remember to ask how you can have some fun doing it!

    Bye for now,

    Anth.

    8 Responses to “Return of the Job Queue!”

    1. Steve Wolf Says:

      Wow, I’ve been getting your daily emails for some time now. I find adding your emails to my “daily reflections” really start my day off great! I had no idea you were a welder! I was a welder for 20years before loosing the ability do manual labor due to a back injury. Today I made the Deans list (Honor Roll) at my online college. The only list I ever made was the “shit list” in the past. At 51 the youngsters think I’m to old to be in college. Today I ask myself “How did I go to a job I hated for so many years?”
      Live and learn I say. Keep up the good work. Your words really make a difference.

      Regards

      Steve Wolf
      Long Island NY

    2. Lynda Stadnyk Says:

      Like you, I went into the welding industry and obtained my Welding Journeyman Certificate. Recently, I injured myself on the job and am forced to re-educate myself for lighter duties. I require more education to obtain a Welding Inspection Certificate to make me certified to inspect. It took a while to heal from the injury and take action to move forward. Thank you for your daily tips that I have been receiving. They have helped motivate me to stop groping and take action. I haven’t got to where I want to be yet, but I feel hopeful today because I made some contacts and spoke to people who gave me information on how to get on track for this new career procedure.

      Best regards,
      Lynda Stadnyk
      Stony Plain, Alberta, Canada

    3. Anonymous Says:

      I was unemployed last year. I have been through some jobs and at present I work part-time. Unfortunately I only make enough for my rent - nothing extra even for utilities or anything. I know education is the key but that takes time and many people do not have that luxury now. I do appreciate your tips. Truth be told though, I still feel lost. I hope we all will be able to see beyond what we think we are and become what we can be. Best wishes to everyone.

    4. Dean Says:

      Thanks for the blog today. This one really hits home. I live in Michigan, right in the middle of the Big 3 controversy. I have been in manufacturing my whole life, as I have witnessed the current events unfold, I realized that the good paying jobs in manufacturing are dwindling away. It is for that reason that I have recently enrolled in a tech school for computers. It is amazing to hear what people ouside of your field say and how they view things differently. I have come to realize that although things are tough today, it is not all doom and gloom and how exciting it can be to experience and learn something new.

      As my teacher in computer school says “knowledge is power” and the more knowledge you get the better you are off. It doesnt have to be traditional school learning but just sitting down and reading a book on another subject can be beneficial.

      God bless all who are going through a tough time, but just remember “this too shall pass”

      Dean
      Detroit, Michigan

    5. Gloria - Zambia Says:

      Thanks for your daily encouragement keep sending them to me

    6. Bill Says:

      Thanks for this helpful message. I’m personally not in danger of losing my job, since I’m retired, but I’m sure your tips and occassional mesages like this one help a lot of people. Just wanted to say thanks…

    7. Dawn Kelley Says:

      Slow economic times are a combination of lots of things so I don’t worry about what I can’t control. Unemployment forces you to slow down, soul search, make time for others around you, go back to school, exercise. Listen to the news (or not the media is awful sometimes) get therapy or spend time reading blogs on motivation/life coaching with someone like you Anthony! What is the worse case scenario? Living in a red cross shelter? Some do.

    8. Tom Says:

      Hi Anthony,
      I found your comments interesting and very true. I am currently working on a book around the very same theme and I had a similar experience as a twenty year old. I hated my civil service job and quit it for a career in the motor industry and the result of doing work that I love is that I have become very successful at it.
      Keep up the good work.

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